EP:009: How to have an amazing marriage w/Dr. Nate Klemp
This week, I interview relationship expert Dr. Nate Klemp. He holds a PhD from Princeton University, and is a bestselling author and trained philosopher. We have an insightful conversation about the challenges that men face in marriage, why marriage is still a good idea in 2024, and Dr. Nate shares some powerful and practical steps on how to have improve your marriage. If you are married, have a significant other, or are thinking about marriage, you do not want to miss this episode!
TIMESTAMPS:
1:10: Introduction
5:50: Why 80/80 marriage? Why not 50/50?
7:50: Availability & overestimation Bias
10:10: What advice would you give a couple who is going through a hard time right now, and believe that everything has to be ‘fair’?
15:00: What can I do (practically) to get into that ‘radically generous’ mindset?
- Contribution - Micro Moments
- Appreciation
- Revealing
20:20: Why IS the traditional marriage model still a good idea in 2024?
28:20: Why marriage is so countercultural
34:35: The stigma of working on your marriage
40:55: What are 3 things men need to know as they prepare for marriage?
46:55: ‘The Life Report Card’ Exercise
51:15: The final question
LINKS:
Mitchell’s Links:
Free Gift: The Roommate Remedy: https://www.dadnationco.com/remedy
Website: https://www.dadnationco.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadnationco/
Dr. Nate’s Links:
Website: https://www.8080marriage.com/
- Newsletter - Klemp Insights
- Book: 8080 Marriage
- Book: OPEN: Living with an expansive mind in a distracted world
80/80 Marriage Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/8080marriage/
Dr. Nate’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nate_klemp/